July Week 2 Review: Perseverance Despite Depression & Burnout

A short post.

I was planning to write something about "Establishing Inner Game Ritual" but ronically, my inner game took a bad hit from a dumb mistake I've done while texting a very good lead from last week.

Normally, mistakes in the game don't bother me, but this mistake is a one I've done once in 2017, also a good lead, and been repeating over the years, killing my chances with women.

What is it?

Trying to tease them over text.

Why do I do it?

Because I was afraid if I respond with something boring or less exciting, the girl will lose interest.

Clearly the fear of coming off as boring is what's demolishing my progress in the game. 

It's forcing you to be too gamey, which not only doesn't work at all with girls you've never dated, but kills your chances with decent leads that are picturing dating your or even becoming your GF.

What did I say to the girl that turned her off instantly?

We were talking about the reason she was in the mall where I approached  She said she was looking for a paricular LV shoe.

*sends me a pic of the shoe*

"I noticed you like big ass shoes 😂"

Game over.

Passing the stage of texting is, by far, my biggest challenge in the game, and the reason I couldn't get more than 4 dates this year so far.

Stats:

 30 approaches

 3 (one blocked after seeing her in the train an hour later)

 1 lead

 0 dates

 

July Week 1 Review: A New Chapter

Writing this post at 7% battery life, at a coffee shop. So, I will be as concise as I can.

July started slowly. No approaches on Monday, and only 1 in Tuesday. 

That left me with 29 sets to do to meet my min 30 sets a week quota. 

But then, I had to hit the road on Friday for 3 day trip to Perak, a place that's been on my bucket list for so long. So I was forced to do 29 sets in 2 days... and I did just that. It was stressful... I hated it... it was rushed... but I'm glad I did it. The result was not bad.

I got 1 IG, and 2 numbers. All of them responded.

The IG lead, a slightly curvy thai girl, was the best set. I've been to thailand countless times so it was easy talking to her. Shows the more you have in common with a girl, the better are your chances with her.

We chatted a bit on IG, but sadly, she is taken so I let go of her. 

The other memorable set is a Sarawakan chiropractor. Our interaction was a bit awkward, and I wasn't on my best form that day. But managed to close her. She accidentally video called me after I sent my first text. We are still texting. She is not investing much, but became a bit warmed up after I shared photos of my holiday with her  (including a cocktail I was having) last night. We were texting past midnight, something I never done with any lead before. She was probably in her bed, wearing her lingerie while playing with her phone after a long day at work.

3%... time to charge my old Samsung

Stats:

30 approaches

3 numbers (including IG)

3 replies

1 active lead

    A 200 years old abandoned house in a small villiage at Perak, fully claimed by mother nature